It’s been almost two years since life has changed for all of us. We all have been impacted in ways we can’t explain. Isolation, away from family and friends, schools closed etc. Although this was a difficult time, we learned many lessons. Time with family we would have never had. During this time my son moved out and bought a condo, my daughter was off to college and there I was just me and Brady (my dog). After being alone in this big house I decided to take in two women with developmental disabilities and during this time my life was changed. I changed. My home felt like a home again, there was laughter and knock knock jokes almost every day. I felt more at home when they lived with me. The bond was so strong that they could give me a look and I knew what they were feeling. The have taught me to slow down, to take the time and just look around and smell the roses, to wonder and have patience, and not be influenced by bad things. I’ve learned so much about myself while spending time with them. So, when did I change? It was a lot of moments, there wasn’t just one, they all changed me. I’m grateful for each moment I spent with them. In such a short time I have seen them transform to being independent, work on a computer, and learn to facetime with family and friends.
I recently sold my home and I had to say goodbye to the two most caring ladies ever. It was a hard time for all of us. One of the women is living on her own now, she is so happy to have her own place, she calls and texts me every day. Kim-Have a great day 😊She would always tell me “It’s going to be a good day” May we all have the optimism of this young woman. The other lady is now living with a great family, and she is so happy. She has a swimming pool, something I didn’t have, and she enjoys swimming.
The last two years I must say I have learned a lot from them. One of the things I have always wished I had was a green thumb… I have never been able to maintain a garden. No matter how hard I tried, the plants would die. The ladies both would teach me and remind me to plant it with love. For the first time in my life my plants are growing.
On Sunday mornings it was like a concert in our house, the ladies would have the music on loud doing chores and dancing around. I miss those days. These sweet young women came into my life at the perfect time. The biggest lesson is that nobody is missing the material things, we all miss the company of others that’s what life is about.
It’s going to be a good day!